Hakann: Hakann: Masculine and Feminine Energy

My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Hakann speaking. I greet you in peace and love.

Most people are attracted to people who embody or represent a quality that they would subconsciously like to have more of. So for example, a woman who always plays it safe might be attracted to an adventurous man, perhaps not because she is actually attracted to him specifically, but more because she wants adventure in her life.

Similarly, most men on a deep, subconscious, soul level would like to get more in touch with feminine energy. And thus they’re often attracted to feminine women, who typically have mostly feminine energy (plus some masculine energy). Similarly, most women on a deep, subconscious, soul level would like to get more in touch with masculine energy. And thus they’re often attracted to masculine men, who typically have mostly masculine energy (plus some feminine energy).

So if you are a man who is struggling with finding a partner, then you may want to work on becoming a more masculine man — preferably in a non-destructive way. You don’t need to become “stereotypically masculine.” You can become masculine in your own way. There’s a nearly infinite amount of ways in which you can be masculine.

Masculinity may have gotten a very bad reputation on Earth, with people heavily emphasizing negative masculine traits, and labeling positive masculine traits as not specifically being masculine. The misunderstanding there is that women can embody masculine energy too, but despite that fact, masculine energy still has a lot of masculine-specific positive qualities. For example, generosity is a masculine trait, or in other words it is a trait that belongs to masculine energy. Yes, of course women can be generous too, but that is simply because women have some amount of masculine energy too.

Here are some positive masculine traits: generosity. Protecting others. Providing for others. Wielding authority wisely and justly. Wielding power wisely and justly. Stepping up and taking charge when appropriate. Taking responsibility. Fatherhood. Resilience. Discipline. Sticking with beneficial routines even if you don’t feel like it on a given day. The ability to stand up again after having taken a literal or metaphorical punch. The ability to make a plan and then execute. Being action-oriented. Confidence. Strength, and not only in a physical sense. Logic. Being able to make hard choices. Courage, including daring to speak your mind and being yourself even if that’s unpopular. Perseverance. Being adventurous. The ability to focus. Being emotionally calm, grounded and centered even if the outside world is chaotic. Being a stabilizing rock-in-the-storm for the people around you. The wisdom to know when to stuff down your emotions because things need to get done and people depend on you, but also the wisdom to know when to sit down and deal with your emotions. Integrity and honesty. Working towards a vision or purpose that’s greater than yourself. Lifting other people up (although that last one can be part of feminine energy too).

As you see, masculinity has a huge amount of positive traits, to the extent that someone would barely be able to function without masculine energy. Of course, femininity has a huge amount of positive traits too, and people would also barely be able to function without feminine energy. And yes, I know that women may say at this point that they have a number of these masculine qualities too, and I don’t doubt that, but again, that is simply you using and partly embodying your masculine energy. It’s similar to how men can be empathic by using their feminine energy, even though empathy is a quality that belongs to femininity.

If you are a man and you are in resistance to femininity, or you are a woman and you are in resistance to masculinity, then you are in resistance to a part of yourself. Furthermore, you are in resistance to a part of yourself that you actually need to be able to function. So if you are, that is something you may want to work on.

Most men have mostly masculine energy, and most women have mostly feminine energy. And that also explains why yes, there are more male CEOs on Earth. Now, of course women shouldn’t be discriminated against. Obviously. If a woman is more qualified than a man for a CEO position, then clearly the woman should be hired. However, there’s nothing wrong with there being more male CEOs in a society, because being a CEO requires a ton of masculine skills and a ton of masculine energy, and that simply comes more naturally to men. This is not a flaw in society, it’s just how biology and energy works. People can be angry at reality, but reality has a way of asserting itself, and trying to live outside of reality only ultimately hurts people.

Some people nowadays use the logic that more men are CEOs and thus there must be discrimination against women and thus we need female-only quotas. That is like saying that there are more female nurses and thus apparently there is discrimination against male nurses and thus we need male-only nurse quotas. That would mean insisting that say 50% of nurses are male, even if that means rejecting capable and passionate female nurses and instead hiring incapable, unmotivated male nurses. Of course, no one would agree with these proposed male-only nurse quotas. However, that logic is the exact same as the logic for female quotas for CEOs.

Yes, I understand that the position of a CEO is more highly paid and more prestigious, but that doesn’t suddenly make this line of logic valid. Now I do agree that it’s not fair that CEOs get paid in some cases a huge amount of money while nurses often struggle to have a decent life, but that’s not an issue that can be resolved with women-only quotas.

The reason why Tunia and I keep speaking out against women-only quotas is that average men — not exceptional men, but average men — are already in a situation where practically no one cares if they live or die, if they succeed or suffer, beyond speaking empty platitudes. Average men typically can’t choose between either working or becoming a stay-at-home mother and having someone else take financial care of them. The only path that average men really have towards being treated as a full human being is if they are useful. Well, if you then start taking away their ability to be useful by discriminating against them — which is what preferential hiring for women boils down to — then you take away their oxygen, their lifeline. Hence women-only quotas, or the preferential hiring of women, are profoundly destructive towards men.

Of course, women are also treated poorly by society and by some men, in a number of ways. We’re not saying that men have it worse than women. Our ultimate goal is that both men and women come together, not as victims or as people who play zero-sum games, but as people who wish to build a better world together. And this does mean that both men and women should insist that the other gender doesn’t get screwed over to benefit their own gender. Which means that yes, in an ideal world, women should speak out against female-only quotas. And of course, if a man overhears that a male friend of his is planning to treat a woman poorly, he should speak up. Et cetera.

With this, I leave you today. You have all my love and peace. I know that things are confusing and scary out there. So everyone has my sincere respect if they are able to go within to observe their own pain, as opposed to either lashing out at others, or insisting that the outer world be changed in a way that hurts others and helps them.

Your star brother,

For Era of Light

**Channel: A.S.


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14 Replies to “Hakann: Hakann: Masculine and Feminine Energy”

  1. All for one

    Oh dear A.S

    I recognise you, you recognise me.

    You are very cheeky and mischievous but I love you as myself. We have chosen opposite roles and you know I am not going to make it easy for you LOL 😝.

    You have chosen the game/role of distracting, triggering wounds and taking light workers off track. And, that’s fine, those that want to continue to experience that will resonate and accept your direction.

    However, I am here to redirect those that get lost and want to find their way back. And so we do this dance 💃cha, cha cha.

    I’m sure we will laugh together about this on the other side. You are doing quite well and making me work hard, but you know I have an enormous amount of ‘energy’ and don’t give up.

    Time is running out. You sure you don’t want to play a different game? Since you know how this ends and we win despite any attempts to thwart.

    I admire your spirit and hope I can entice you to join us. We would make a great team don’t you think. In turn you will be rewarded in soul growth rather than having to repeat lessons not learnt ❤️.

    The light is warm, bright and beautiful … remember … You can change your contract at any time–whilst there still is time (on Earth).

  2. All for one

    Hi Earth men reading these posts.

    I am an Earth woman with ‘experience’ on Earth, I am also a light being very close to the Source.

    I love you just the way you are so does Source.

    I would like to help you remember that there is no right or wrong only souls choosing to have different experiences.

    There are no judgements from others when we go home. Source and those close to the Source (on higher dimensions) do not judge.

    You ARE the source and the Source is perfect and whole not lacking in anything. Not needing to be changed or to change.

    There are ETs that are hermaphrodite do they care? Are they lacking? No. It is about accepting differences. How are we to help humans not be afraid of the various souls and ETs if we cannot even accept our own differences?

    Be whatever and whoever you want and love yourself for whoever and whatever you are. Those who are close to Source know your soul and do not care about your flesh suit, job, choices, femininity, masculinity, clothes, house etc. If an Earth woman does not resonate with you that’s fine, that’s her choice. Many don’t relate to me on Earth but I don’t care. I know who I am, where I came from and why I am here. I don’t take it personally. I am happy with who I am, I am Source, I am perfect. I don’t need others’s acceptance here in this game of ‘separation’. I KNOW I am very loved by the All.

    What IS important is how YOU ‘feel’ about yourself. What is important for your spiritual growth is that you treat others with love and do no harm, that is all. Very simple.

    Women, I love you too. Having been a women on this Earth life I know I chose a very difficult experience. Regardless, it has been hugely beneficial to my spiritual growth because it forced me to remember I am not powerless. I have choices. I have free will. I will love men even if they treat me bad. I will not let this game/test divide me from other souls that have chosen to be male in this experience.

    It is important for us EARTH women and men to come together and support each other in accomplishing the Divine Plan. It is important we do not let others deistract us, confuse us and take us off track. We must look within ourselves not seek answers outside ourselves.

    WE came here to understand what it is like to be human. Therefore, WE have a better understanding than those who are not in a human flesh suit on this planet Earth.

    This is my knowing from WITHIN, I stand by ALL with love and respect.

    This is just an experience, I suggest not taking it too seriously. We are here to play the game of separation. The test is to see if we can reunite and come together as ONE! Accepting and loving everyone no matter what experience they have chosen to have.

    From my heart to yours.

  3. H.S

    Thank you Hakkan and A.S for this message. And Tunia too, for addressing the gender issues with us which is not easy
    Not easy, because it touches our instincts which are natural, or ‘feels’ natural even when it is wrought or sometimes derailed
    It’s also because of the ‘divide and rule’ game that people got involved in
    I appreciate the honesty of people here who took risks and responsibility to speak their heart and mind
    This is the very possible traits of people – if not just men – that’s really needed these days and that is very attractive to me, always

    ‘If not just men’ – my experience and observation is that women tend to give in to peer pressure more often, and the fear of being isolated and bullied is very real
    I also observe that the media often use this fear on women while instilling the narrative that they are strong and confident – where this is leading toward is to silence men
    It’s a shame because I like talking. I like talking to men, women, anyone… children..
    We can be much freer than this

  4. MJ

    Ye ole divide and conquer tactics again. You can always tell whether dark or light bcoz light souls do not divide and cause conflict. Light souls know the divine feminine has been oppressed. Now it’s back to the time where women regain their power and Hakann, Tunia (AS) don’t seem to like that.

    The Goddesses and Priestesses will shine, you cannot stop it. Nor can the male dominating Christian falsehoods.

    With respect.

  5. Jared

    Tunia and Hakann have both said something to the effect that if you become more masculine you can get a girlfriend.

    This is a little short sighted and narrow focus.
    I have plenty of masculinity but I also need a house and a medbed and a good loving world.

    It’s not my fault the condition of earth and the slavery environment.

    I would like people to stop saying such silly things.
    Otherwise I appreciate the article.


    1. Silvia S.

      Jared I agree , as an etero woman I have never appreciated the so called alpha males, and I do not like alpha women friends too, I do not think that men should be more masculine and women more feminine. My personal opinion is that the Earth will be more peaceful when both men and women have a well balanced personality, with healthy masculine and healthy feminine traits in their personalities and have solved their traumas. Silvia S.

  6. Silvia S.

    Hi everybody, honestly speaking, women all over the Earth have always received the worst treatments ever! In the old past indian women were burnt alive when their husbands died, in the middle age, in Italy , indipendent women used to be burnt at stake while considered witches. Even nowadays women receive lower pages compared to men’s, when raped, women are often named the provokers because of a mini skirt or a pair of tight blue jeans, judges and people often say or think they deserved a rape because of their clothing and in some countries, women cannot drive a car or have family’s money when their parents die, even in the year 2023, because they have no rights or they are compelled to marry someone not loved because parents and brothers decide for them. Women have been very poorly treated for thousands of years while men have lost parts of their privileges only since 1968, after young people started the famous rebellion movement, so PLEASE, stop saying that men receive the worse treatment, some of them receive poor treatment but never and ever like women. Silvia S.

    1. Jared

      Hello Silvia,

      It sounds like you have some trauma to clear from this life and past lives.

      Comparing who suffered more will not make progress for us.
      Guys have experienced that stuff also as well as infant genital mutilation which is terrible.

      We all need a better life.

      Consider clearing everything with 7 steps by arnoux goran and divine affirmations by me and Peter Mt. Shasta:)


      1. Silvia S.

        Hi Jared, luckily I have never been discriminated for being a woman but by mother and my aunt were like that, because my grandfather prevented them from studying . He thought that women ‘s place was at home, caring their families and homes,, that was an old ,sessist mentality. European and asian women have always very poorly treated, not only by the society but also by their husbands, for thousands of years, nowadays the situation is a little better but far from being ethical, I live in Italy and I hear a lot of women complaining and there are still too many rapes an differences in wages for considering our society fair and ethical. Silvia S.

  7. Jared

    I felt discriminated against when applying for secretary/front desk positions before cause that’s normally a woman job:)

    I want my trillionaires to become real and I buy whole foods and make it free amen! Another male CEO:)

  8. Jared

    Yes everyone needs to grow a pair and embody their masculinity and wake up and stand up and speak up and take back earth amen!

  9. harrrrrie

    I hope the next article will list the feminine traits. Thank you for this, it is very helpful.

  10. R

    You’re probably right Hakan, I can’t fault your logic. Having said that, on a personal note, as a man I do seem to miss some of these masculine traits you’re mentioning, or I might approach them differently. I find it hard in today’s society to get to know myself as a man and how I show up within my masculinity. I do find my way, but it’s not easy.

    To me, women have it easier in this specific instance. They have had or have taken the possibility to explore themselves more fully (from Tom boy to girlie girl). For instance women have a wider range of clothing options to express themselves, in which both masculine and feminine options are available. We as men haven’t taken this opportunity yet, or are now starting to take it, to express our selves in a wider range then was historicly socialy acceptable and for some part still is.

    We’ve been living in a one size fits all masculinity, same as women did for femininity. I feel that now it’s our turn to give ourselves the freedom to express ourselves, with appreciation for both sides in ourselves, in which ever way that balance comes.

    I don’t say women have it easier then men in general, only that they have a headstart when it comes to freely expressing their balance of feminity and masculinity.

  11. Raksha

    The sad thing is that this line of understanding is so politically incorrect nowadays. People mix up equality and uniformity. Biological parameters are hugely under-estimated, and the energetic is ignored. It’s outrageous for many people to imply that there are some genuine differences between masculinity and feminity. I learned to remain mostly silent on this matter when it is brought up, else I would often trigger outraged reactions.