Channel: A.S.
My dearest brothers and sisters,
This is Tunia speaking. I love you so very much.
It’s strange that on Earth, most people are motivated by emotions. Yet, most conversations are about facts, about logic, about events, and about other rational bits of information.
So most people are driven by emotions, yet talk about rational bits of information.
This is part of why relationships often don’t work out.
It’s part of why people with substantially different viewpoints can never seem to convince the other person, even if one person very clearly wins the debate. After all, people talk about rational bits of information, but they care about their emotions.
So, let me share an alternative conversation method that you can try out. I’m not saying it’s the only valid conversation method. It’s not. In fact, in some circumstances and contexts this is not a good method to use. But sometimes it’s great.
I call it the emotional conversation method. And it’s simply: when talking to someone, focus on making sure that both people understand how both people are feeling.
So let’s say John is talking with Sally about politics or about their relationship, and the discussion is going nowhere. Then they could try the emotional conversation method, where their focus becomes:
Help John understand how John feels
Help John understand how Sally feels (and have her verify this)
Help Sally understand how John feels (and have him verify this)
Help Sally understand how Sally feels
So the focus is purely on just making sure both people understand how both people feel (including themselves). That’s it.
Pretty straightforward, right? But it’s very effective in certain situations.
This can make people feel loved and nourished and cared for, because people generally really enjoy it when others sincerely listen to them and try to understand them.
It can strengthen relationships or friendships.
It can lead to breakthroughs in discussions, if people realize that what’s actually going on is some emotional need that one side has.
To be clear though, the emotional conversation method is not a universal magical fix.
Maybe John and Sally just fundamentally disagree, and then it’s still good to understand how everyone is feeling, but that may not fix the disagreement or incompatibility.
Maybe there’s a practical problem, and someone just needs to fix that, and talking about people’s feelings doesn’t by itself fix the problem.
You might also run into people who really like that you’re listening to them, but they’re unwilling to listen to you, or try to understand you. If they consistently do this, and just gently asking them to listen doesn’t help… then maybe find better people to interact with.
You may also run into people who simply don’t want to understand either their own or your emotions.
So the emotional conversation method certainly doesn’t always work and certainly isn’t always appropriate. But sometimes it really is, and sometimes it can be really nourishing and relationship-strengthening.
I’m sure that some of you were already doing this. Kudos to you. But even for those people, I want to invite you to keep an eye out for situations where a discussion seems to go nowhere, and it might be helpful to try and understand how the other person feels.
I hope this was helpful.
With love,
Your star sister,
Tunia
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//It is strange that on Earth most people are motivated by emotions. And yet most conversations are about facts, logic, events and other rational aspects of information.// –
– nothing strange. Emotions are reactions to the surrounding world, creating a motive to make or not make some changes to the surrounding world. Emotions are deeply connected with the primitive instincts of man and appear in the brain much faster and earlier than slow rational and logical thinking. For example, “sudden curiosity” – at its core/base has emotional interest, and only then goes into the “research” stage (slow, logical, rational). People became like this for a reason, but because in primitive times those who reacted faster survived, and not those who thought for a long time.
So there is nothing strange about it. It can also be assumed that during the genetic experiments that resulted in the emergence of modern humans, emotions (motivation by emotions) were implanted in humans from earthly primates, and the logical (rational) part was implanted from alien life forms. In any case, there is nothing strange here. Besides, if Tunia is real, she should know all this and know much more than this. Therefore, the real “strangeness” is that she does not know and does not understand this.
We are the complaint department and we love you very much.
Yes, but by making your argument entirely rational and showing no concern about feelings, you actually only lend more credence to Tunia’s point – fictional or not.
It’s hard to explain to people who think they got emotions all figured out that they simply don’t, because even when they FEEL insulted they fail to acknowledge it and no one can ‘prove them wrong’ without resorting to certain mind tricks.
After all it’s one of idk ~100-150 channelings, and each one has its own topic. Can’t be “when is the intervention” every single time.
I know she has given this message before in other words and it really helped me to identify when a person just needs to be listened to and understood more than their problem being “solved”. Very helpful.
For me the core is: telepathy is the natural state and we here need to do workarounds to make it as close as possible.
Then, a Pleiadian’s way of thinking in contrast to the conditions on Earth, it bridges our two worlds, it’s wonderful.
Thank you, Tunia! Thank you, A. S.!
Well, Tunia….
Instead of John and Sally bending over backwards to be agreeable to each other…
how about an authentic “flip you, Sally! flip you, John!”
and get it over with 👏👏👏
This allows them to sashay on over to compatible vibrations😉😉😁
Girl, you should start resonating with the New Earth angels that are struggling to become!
We aren’t going to be the happy, trusting P’s you’re used to.
We are battle angels, battle angels don’t spend precious time bending over backwards to see some irrelevant pov, that you think is important to “agree” upon.
Tunia, with all due respect, we aren’t the kindergartners you pleiadian’s left in the tender care of de mons, tens of thousands of years ago…🙎♀️
Get used to it. Can I get an amen???
I have other thoughts, that can wait. ❤️🔥💎
Tunia, imagine waking up, to a new nightmare, on a daily, basis? Here, on earth, in many, places, it is the Fare, du jour. If it’s not earthquakes, volcanoes, tornados, hurricanes, and floods, then leaders, of countries, literally, trying to murder their own populations, and the endless, threats, of WAR, real, or orchestrated, through nefarious, means. The level, of Negativity vs the Visibility, of Good things, is rather Stark, at times. It is hard, to maintain balance, even on a good day. These events alone evoke a tremendous amount, of emotion, pain, suffering, that never seems, to go away. It is not victimhood, but reality, on a scale, which everyone is the Target. You are a kind, hearted, and loving individual, who truly cares about this dilemma, in which we are in. IT will be made better, because there is no other choice. It is emotional, and there’s NO getting around that. It will take place, the real, question is: WHEN?
Tunia has acknowledged the difficulty of the 3rd experience many times. Because she lives in bliss, would you prefer that she just shut the hell up ? Maybe there are a few tips she can offer.
Also, your portrait of life on Earth is not entirely accurate. But I understand your point, and I am not in stark disagreement with it.