Hi Dear Friends,
Tempers are running high on the Earth. People are sparking into fiery discussions as quickly as wildfires. The angels talk about why this is happening, and even more importantly, why we get angry. This was an eye-opener for me the first time they said it to me years ago.
I’ll share a story of how to deal with beings that sting (literally and metaphorically) and some practical tips for dealing with those who disagree.
The world is shaken and stirred but we can still choose to live in love, in alignment with our true nature, and to manifest our dreams.
Love you all!
My dear friends, we love you so very much,
What an incredible time you are living within! Everything is coming up and out. You’re going within, taking inventory of your feelings. You’re taking inventory of your life. You’re getting clearer on who you are, what you want in your life, and what you don’t. So is everyone else.
There is wonderful growth and expansion, as never before. During quarantine you sent tsunamis of desire unto the heavens. “Yes! We are in it together!” “Yes! We love to see our mother earth clear and pure!” “Yes, we want to be safe, healthy, happy and connected.” “Yes! We are coming to life as never before, craving to show up in the world in a whole new way!” “We want to live! We want to breathe! We want to experience our unity!”
Then dear friends, as light is apt to do, it exposed areas of darkness. The desire for being “in it together” triggered the exposure of all areas in which you were not. Divisions that have been festering for centuries are coming to the surface, disagreements are becoming more and more heated as people become clearer on who they are, what they want, and what they believe. Tempers are flaring.
It is easier to love when people make it easy for you. It takes fortitude and courage to love those who do not make it easy. We would suggest that you are never really angry at another person. Rather, if you are more honest – deeply, deeply honest – you will see that you are angry because you feel that they make it hard for you to love them, or in some cases, you feel that they make it hard for you to love yourself. This enrages or depresses you. You do not like giving up your power to love and feel lovable. Deep down, you know that belongs to you and you alone.
We ask you to think about this. Why is it so hard to love someone who disagrees with you? You would not have a massive argument with a friend over whether or not they should eat dessert at a buffet, and yet some of you would argue to near emotional death about politics, masks, or how systemic racial inequalities should be fixed.
We see your hearts dear ones. In your deepest truth you want to love. You want to share ideas. You want the diversity of ideas and ideals because from that you can create a better and more amazing world – not by insisting on “my way” or “your way” but rather by sorting yourselves out according to who and what resonates with you, and taking the best of all ideas to create something greater.
Why is it so hard for you to love someone who disagrees with you? Most of the time dear friends it is because you fear them, or you fear their ideas. You fear that what they believe in will not work, that it will put your life or life style in jeopardy. You fear it will compromise your health, make an unpleasant dent in your finances, hurt someone you care about or hurt themselves. You fear that maybe you really are unlovable, unworthy, or wrong because they refuse to validate you or your ideas.
The list goes on. When you are feeling fear, you find it hard to love, and nothing aggravates you more than feeling disconnected from your very own essence, which is love.
So next time you feel angry with someone, try thinking about it differently. Try saying to yourself, “I am angry at this person because I fear ____. When I fear ___ I find it hard to love. I really want to love. I really want to feel safe. I really want to be connected to my essence. I really want to love myself. I want to feel worthy, lovable, and right, at least for myself. I want to feel my connection with the Source. I want to be who I truly am and have a sense of connection to and faith in the only real power in the universe.”
Then dear ones, ripe with this truth in your hearts, find a way to start connecting with love. Walk away from the argument or agree to disagree. Seek to understand, or if you can’t stand their views simply say, “I’m sorry. I know you have a right to think however you like and that is right for you, but I do too and our views don’t resonate. I love you, however. I hope you can love me in spite of our differences. We’re both good people. We both want peaceful happy lives and we just have different ideas about how that might look. I’m sure yours are right for you and mine are right for me.”
It is true that many who want a fight would look at you as if you are absolutely insane if you spoke and acted this way but the truth is that you would feel like you and that’s all you have to do!
Stop seeking agreement. Seek instead to understand.
Conversely if someone is taking out their anger upon you, look at them, and simply say, “Ow, that hurts. I prefer to be spoken to kindly so I’ll talk to you later,” and walk away. Hang up. Leave the situation or if you can’t remain silent and walk away when they’re done.
They might not be able to help themselves. They may be in such pain and fear that their unconscious mind has hijacked their ability to think lovingly. This is not about you, dear ones. They are showing you their fears. Be kind to yourself when others cannot. Agree with yourself when others cannot. Love yourself when others cannot.
In a space of self-love, others who aim their anger at you will appear like children throwing ridiculous tantrums, and their words about you will mean nothing to you.
On this holiday in the US that celebrates independence, remember the greatest freedom that any of you have is the freedom to think the thoughts that give you joy, to feel the feelings that feel like love so you can attune to the Divine, and in that energy, receive, allow, and experience whatever it is is you are truly in alignment with!
Your freedom to manifest in this fashion does not depend on the agreement of anyone else. The power that creates universes lives within you. Align with that love and there will be no need for agreement from anyone, for the essence of all your dreams can be fulfilled. Choose love. Choose joy. Choose any better feeling you can find when you’re upset or sad.
Choose little by little to move your mind towards the thoughts that make you feel good. As you do, then dear friends, no matter who agrees or does not, no matter which politician is “in charge,” no matter who is or isn’t wearing a mask, no matter your finances, your health, your support or lack of it, no matter whether or not you have a supportive spouse or a horrible ex, you are aligning with the Source of all creation!
Dear ones, claim your God-given power and employ your freedom to choose your own thoughts!
Love is your nature. Loves is what breathes life into you even as you read these words. Love feels better. Love may not always be a warm fuzzy feeling but sometimes is simply a choice to be kind. Love may not always equate to “like” but you can nonetheless honor diverse ideas if you don’t agree with them.
Love, dear friends, says “I exist in all thing and all beings. I never intended to be the same. I never intended to think exactly as anyone else. In my diversity I am more than I would be in sameness.”
Much like the cells in the body are a diverse but harmonious population, and much like the trees and animals are diverse but live in harmony within a given ecosystem, you the souls, who are cells in the body of the Human race, were never designed to agree with everyone else. Instead you were designed to be yourself, honor your own ideas and ideals while aligning with love, and in that reality, you will be guided in a harmonious way to dance with the rest of creation.
Next time you feel angry because you disagree with someone else, or they disagree with you, remind yourself. I prefer to love. It feels better. I want to agree to disagree. I need not fear because “although I walk in the valley of the shadow of death I shall fear no evil, for thou art with me.” The creator is around you and within you dear ones. You need not fear, and therefore, you need not argue, and then, (sigh of relief) you are free to love.
God Bless You! We love you so very much.
~ The Angels
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