Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.
We have a beautiful relationship with all other beings throughout this galaxy, and we continue to seek to create partnerships with beings throughout the universe. There are some that we have not met yet outside of the Milky Way, and we love expanding our consciousness to connect with whomever we can, because we understand that when we are meeting someone else, we are meeting another aspect of ourselves.
This is a beautiful and powerful practice for all of you to employ in your day-to-day lives. When you can see everyone else as representing an aspect of you, and then drop your resistance to that person, if you had resistance to them, you can make such tremendous strides forward in your spiritual evolution, and you can bring about the greatest changes on your world that you have ever seen.
Truly the biggest problem you have there on Earth right now is that you hold grudges, that you feel separate from others, and that you harbor hate in your hearts. Letting all of that go will not just bring you together as a human collective, but it will also help you to rise up, and you want to rise up. You want to exist in a higher-frequency state, one that we refer to commonly as ‘the fifth dimension.’ But you cannot get there through seeing yourself as separate than anyone else.
Creating division puts you in a third-dimensional mentality and keeps you stuck in a third-dimensional paradigm. You were, for the most part, born into a third-dimensional paradigm, and it is what you are there to transcend, what you are there to ascend out of. Don’t see it as letting others off the hook for their bad behavior. See it as the only path to becoming more of who you really are, which is your higher self, your fifth-dimensional self.
We have said this before, and we will say it again – stop waiting for something outside of you to happen to catapult you, and only the other chosen ones, to the fifth dimension. You are going to do this as a collective, and in order to really experience yourselves as Source Energy, you must have the others present, because they are a part of Source Energy, and therefore, a part of you.
Some of you might wonder how can you possibly forgive some of the heinous acts that your fellow acts have taken part in. We are not telling you to deny yourselves of your feelings about those heinous acts, but we are asking you to imagine that in some other lifetime, one in which you were much, much different than you are today, you were the one committing the heinous acts.
If you can forgive someone else, you can forgive yourself, and then and only then you can become more whole and complete. The key to forgiveness is not just realizing that by forgiving another you are forgiving yourself. The key to forgiveness is also allowing yourself to feel what that person and that action was always meant to cause you to feel.
Once you clear your anger, your sadness, your hate, and your fear, then you are in a place where you can forgive, and then you are letting go of some of the weight that’s holding you down, that’s holding you back, that’s keeping you from your own ascension. And as you ascend, you take others with you. You set the example; you create the template. And you become the teacher and guide you were meant to be in this lifetime.
We are sorry that it is not easier than that, but it was your choice to create this version of reality. So please remember that the next time you are shaking your fist at it, and know that the feeling of embracing it all and rising above it is one that is unparalleled throughout the entire galaxy.
We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.
**Channel: Daniel Scranton
**Source
Forgiveness = Acceptance + Compassion 😉
Thanks for commenting as you did dear Silvia. From my human standpoint “to forgive” can only truly happen by fully understanding the misunderstanding = what caused the irritation in the first place. And if we understand FULLY then “FORGIVENESS” HAPPENS ON ITS OWN, so it’s nothing WE do, which I find most important to be aware of/know.
Ergo “to feel the need for forgiveness” is only an appeal or reminder “a situation” needs (more) inner work. That’s how we must serve/answer that feeling.
Now if or not a friendship/relationship is supposed to go on “after forgiving” your life will show you. IF YOU ARE WILLING to connect again just DO send out a friendly signal. If you get no reaction give thanks for guiding you/leave them alone and “just watch your feelings”… there’s prob more work waiting for you.
The thing is we constantly want or try to protect ourselves from getting hurt whilst only getting hurt again&again gets us closer to what we came here for. That road is a tough one, but if walked unconditionally it turns you into the light at the end of the tunnel.
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Dear Arturian council thanks a lot for this explanation, forgiveness is great but sometimes it is harsh because it involves one’s letting go all pain, rage etc. which is not always that easy. When people meet people who don’t like, because they may represent aspects of one’s ego which are not peasant, besides accepting these aspects in themselves, should they also be friends and go out together althesame even if lt is difficult? Should they accept this company ? Once I was told that forgiveness involves also restarting friendship or partnership again if there hasn’t been violence or very negative behaviour. Is there someone who can give one’s opinion about this? Thanks for any replies. Silvia S.
Dear Silvia. I understand. I struggled with forgiveness for a long time. I still have some forgiving to do. But I can tell you where I have forgiven, it frees me, releases me and lets me get on with my life. In fact one person has apologized sincerely and has remorse. He has to live with that. There are some who I think would not be capable of that remorse. Some of them may have been non human, though they look human. I think if they do not have a heart connection at all within themselves, rather than forgive, perhaps realize all you can do is send light to them and give yourself light and love and cut cords and use violet flame. Or hand it to God. Let yourself be free of it. Those who harm us are not worth us holding ourselves back. No you don’t have to become friends with them. You don’t have to spend any time with them. You know it depends on how you know them and why they have been part of your life. I chose to be at peace with my siblings so that I could be connected with their children who know nothing about how I was treated. The ones who I struggle to forgive are less than acquaintances. Professional people who were corrupt instead of having integrity and actually being professional. So in that situation I don’t need to have any more to do with them. There was a right time to deal with them and a time to free myself. When it still bothers me I write down what I’m thinking and feeling and what I want to still say to them. That way I’m not bottling it up or letting it fester in me. I focus on raising my vibration and just knowing the situation has a higher perspective even if I’m not sure of what that is. Focus on gratitude and connecting with your higher self or what you are drawn to – angels, ascended masters etc. When you feel those other things pulling you down, allow yourself to acknowledge it. Feel what you need to feel. Then go back to the things that uplift you. I hope this helps.