By Diana Cooper | Source
The Spiritual Laws are exact so here is something about As within so without.
The energies of the universe are quite extraordinary and magnificent. The Universe rearranges itself to reflect your reality, so that when you look at what is happening in your life, you can explore your inner world. This means that you have the power to change any aspect of your life by changing yourself. Here are a few examples.
First, remember that people are complex. Just because you have a friend who is emotional and unreliable, it does not mean this is reflected in you, unless it resonates! That friend may also be extremely creative and that is the energy you are attracted to. So accept your magnificence but also check out other mirrors.
If there are angry people in your life, don’t complain about them. Instead, look at your own anger, especially that which you deny. And similarly if there are violent people in your life look for any deeply denied anger within you. Under anger is always fear, so explore what you’re really afraid of.
Do people leave you or withdraw emotionally from you? In this case start by looking at how and why you are pushing them away. Do you feel unworthy? Are you manifesting your fear of abandonment? Ask archangel Chamuel to help you.
Do you let people put you down or criticise you? Check how self-critical you are. Do you put yourself down? Make a concerted effort to look for your good qualities and affirm them to yourself.
Do people beat you up emotionally, or even physically? Carefully looked to see if you beat yourself up with your thoughts. This is an extension of being self-critical, so write down every good thing you can think about yourself.
Are there people around you who can’t support themselves financially or emotionally? Then ask yourself how do you support yourself? Make effort to be independent and self-supporting. Those who never have any money obviously have poverty consciousness, and this is often based on poor self-worth. So, build your self-worth.
Do you allow someone to intimidate or bully you? Explore how you bully your inner child.
Or is someone very controlling? How do you disempower yourself?
If there is dishonesty around you, ask how you lie to yourself.
If there is turmoil and conflict in your vicinity, ask what are you in turmoil about?
Are those around you confused about their sexuality? Ask where and how you are confused.
Do you have people around you who are emotionally over the top? Are you emotionally uncontrolled or the opposite, do you deny your emotions?
Most people are very good at looking at reflections of themselves that don’t work. So remember to look at the generous, loving, kind, appreciative, supportive, spiritual, calm, peaceful, in touch, evolved, beautiful, healthy mirrors people are reflecting back to you and accept these!