“How do I become Exoconscious?” a woman asked, gripping the mic. Affirmation murmured undertones waved through the conference participants. The answer to “How do I become Exoconscious” lies within the question. It’s not a Sphinx riddle or a yogi trick question. The answer is one word—Conscious.
I become Exoconscious as I become Conscious.
Becoming conscious can be exhausting, pushing beyond our physical and emotional limits, even cracking our spiritual bedrock, our core.
Nevertheless, each human has the tools because Exoconsciousness is the innate ability of all humans to connect, communicate and co-create with extraterrestrials and non-human intelligences. Every human, equipped with consciousness, has the hardware and the software necessary for Exoconsciousness. But, to becoQme Exoconscious, we must be conscious. We must use, train and develop our conscious abilities.
From Unconscious to Conscious Contact
Many of us experience ET contact in an unconscious state: out of body, in dream-state, in dream-like physical paralysis, or in what feels like an artificial matrix. These primarily unconscious states of contact are real. The experiencer may remember and recollect fragments of their contact in those states, yet it primarily remains unconscious.
To become Exoconscious, we must be conscious during ET experiences. And that means we become conscious, even during altered states. This happens gradually and many experts are available to teach us lucid dreaming, conscious out of body travel, remaining conscious during varying states of consciousness, and intending to bring unconscious reactions and beliefs to consciousness.
Structure of Exoconscious Conscious ET Contact
As awakening occurs, reality shifts and contact changes as a state of Exoconsciousness progressively unfolds. Exoconsciousness is not a one-time event, as in I saw an ET, or an orb, or a UFO. It is a gradually evolving state. Events may cause humans to awaken and change their reality. But, at some point, the experiencer must engage the event, examine its meaning, integrate the experience into their self-identity, and learn to invite increased contact.
Exoconsciousness is sourced in ongoing ET contact, over a span of time. Becoming conscious of our ET contact often involves years of self-examination and gradual integration of multiple contact experiences. Yet, the process differs in everyone. Each ET experiencer, at some time, may discover that their ET contact is now completely conscious. When they wish contact, they invite the ETs. When the ETs wish contact, they consciously hear the request. When they receive an ET message, they do so consciously. There is no trance or hypnogogic state. There is now a conscious relationship.
The Exoconscious experiencer’s self is awake or conscious. Their ET contact integrates into their daily life, becoming a source of information and energy that they consciously tap. Fear, trauma flashbacks, anger, and the host of other emotional reactions no longer inhibit the Exoconscious. They break through the veil of separation between themselves and ETs. Humans and ETs are one in the same way that any close relationship forms intimacy and oneness. And yet, they are separate, sovereign beings.
Learning to Control our Mind
Being in control of one’s mind is filled with potholes and detours. We learn by experience. We learn by both integration and release. We ask—how, where, and why does this ET contact belong to me, to my consciousness? Do I integrate it or release it? Because, when we control our minds during contact, we choose the form and boundaries of our contact. We create a safe contact space. When we are conscious, we can freely choose to fully integrate or discard portions of our experience. It is our choice.
Exoconsciousness as a choice is based on intention. Who am I? Who am I becoming? Who am I in conscious relationship with ETs. What kind of ET relationship do I wish to create? What are my boundaries and my desires? Intention requires clarity and wisdom. Clarity means removing all blinders that inhibit conscious awareness during ET contact. Intention is not a game or a computer parapsychic experiment; it is the foundation of the soul and spirit transformation we choose this lifetime. We can choose to integrate ETs into our daily practice and work. We can choose to integrate ETs into our identity or not. We control our minds. We control our decisions. We set safe circumstances for contact. We engineer the structure of our relationship with ETs.
Learning to Integrate and Mature through ET Contact
Exoconsciousness is based on integration and maturity. It is a lengthy process that moves through the initial excitement of ET contact—the messages and experiences received. We all receive messages. We all have experiences, many similar. Excitement is a phase. Eventually, this initial excitement phase quiets and we move into a deeper stage of calm contact.
Exoconscious integration and maturity take time because our human nature is tricky. And we need to learn to short circuit the old tricky network that was imprinted in our emotional body, beginning in our early years of Earth life. If we did not form secure and healthy attachments in our early years, if our parents or others neglected us and emotionally or physically abandoned us, then we need to learn to re-parent and love ourselves. We need to learn to identify and control our old emotional reactions and replace them with a healthy and secure network of love and self-acceptance.
If you count yourself among the lucky ones who spent your childhood in a secure and sane home, then your path is much smoother. Your maturity and integration may be easier. Yet, your initial ET experiences may still challenge your security, shift your reality. And then you, also, will be faced with reengineering your reality to integrate and mature.
ET experiencers integrate and mature as we reengineer our reality or reparent ourselves. Gradually we form a new reality which is holistic—mind, body and spirit. It is hard work. A 3-D slog.
We are all responsible for our own work. ETs do not do this 3D work for us. It is our personal responsibility. Fortunately, our human consciousness supplies us with all the tools and techniques we need.