When people open their hearts to unselfish, unconditional love, a whole new world of possibilities opens. Rather than spending effort avoiding the selfishness of others, they spend time making sure that the way they choose to serve society is done in the best way possible. When people can trust others to treat each other with love and respect rather than as competitors, then everyone gains.
As heart-centered awareness grows and blooms within society, people’s primary focus will shift away from service to self and towards service to others. When it does, the world will transform out of all recognition.
But you don’t have to wait for all of society to catch up. In both your personal and professional dealings with people, you have a reputation, and it is fed by word-of-mouth recommendation. Build your reputation as someone who tends to give more than is expected of them, and you will find yourself becoming increasingly popular in both your business and personal lives. People respond to heartfelt action and, as they say, what goes around comes around.
Action and reaction are opposite and equal in all types of thought and action. Your heartfelt action, by automatic reaction, will create a heartfelt reality among you and the people who are attracted to your energy. When you operate mainly out of a heart-centered frequency, you will notice that people are attracted to you in all aspects of your life. Friends, lovers, professional associates; everyone will be attracted to your magnetic personality.
Personal magnetism has been one of the great mysteries of life simply because, in the past, so few people have operated from that heart-centered frequency of awareness on a routine basis. However, it’s really no secret. It’s just one of those common-sense facts of life.
The secret of personal magnetism is that the more you unconditionally love people, the more they love you.
You don’t have to make a big deal out of it. You don’t have to stand there like some transmitter beacon, radiating huge amounts of heart energy. Top stage performers do, but you don’t. You can be very quiet about it and everyone will be quietly drawn to you. Everyone of a similar nature, that is. Everyone who appreciates kindness and a truly warm, genuine smile.
In other words, you’ll attract the very best of friends.
There’s nothing more attractive than a warm smile from a person who quietly radiates a sense of unconditional love for themselves and all others.
**By Owen Waters
Lori Jo and Zuza – So glad to read that you’re going through the same things as me. I love to look into someone’s eyes and give a warm smile. Sometimes, this catches them unawares and I can see them retreat into their fearful place in their heart, but I just try to send them love from my heart and walk by. It happens at my work the same way, I do love and care for all of the people who are there, but some of them cannot look at my eyes when I say “hi” with a warm smile. They avoid me. I know it’s a fear of some kind, and hope they can grow out of it. Anyway, just wanted you both to know, I’m in the same boat, but am seeing nice responses from many people!
Linda….I am so happy you responded!!! We are not alone! I think you are spot on about fear being “the great motivator” here. Had not considerer that and it makes total sense. Puts a new perspective on things for me so thank you!! Maybe this is also why I have been fear-free for the last few years, very at peace with everything after having lived in anxiety for decades. Just such a shame that so many people have become so fearful and angry and bitter and brainwashed. There are few people to share my joy and peace with! So I really appreciate you and everyone here.
While I certainly agree with this in principal and in general….and make a daily intention to live in this manner…I am finding that much has changed since Covid, Biden, “wokeness,” and the speeding up of Ascension in those who are awake. I show everyone I don’t know…strangers, service people, etc…complete compassion, patience, appreciation, a warm smile. But I have found that, in this “new world,” those I have known for years, even decades, now resent this part of me and fight it at every chance they get. They are combative, demanding, critical of my “unwoke” self. And while I remain calm and non-combative and compassionate even when their arrows are flying toward me, that seems to make them even more upset!! Everything is different. The “old ways” don’t work anymore. Unconditional love is no longer met with love. Unselfishness is met with disdain, suspicion and accusations. BUT, that warm smile I give to everyone I pass on the street or meet in a store or restaurant, that extra tip to a waitress or waiter or service person I deal with, that impromptu conversation with a stranger in a parking lot, that note of thanks and appreciation to someone who did a good job or said kind words…now those go a long, long way.
I am having a similar experience. I had to distanced myself from most of my friends, and even had to cut some relationships. It was extremely hard at one point. I had to learn to accept that all. I am surrounded by sleeping people, my family, my friends, colleagues at work, it is not often easy to just deal with people and their old perspective of life now. However, I meet occasionally strangers, who resonate completely with me and even if that is just for a moment of talk or a smile or a gaze, it gives hope, and helps to stay balanced. Hugging you warmly!
Warm hugs back at you, Zuza!! There is comfort in knowing that others are going through the same thing right now and understand. Thank you for sharing!