None of your experiences are ever a waste of time. Every experience, good or bad, has helped you further define your preferences and offered wonderful opportunities for growth and expansion, even if they didn’t turn out the way you wished they would.
There is also an idea that it has been a waste of time if you were kind to another who in the end didn’t appreciate your efforts. Dear Ones, your kindness was a beautiful act of self declaration and contributed to the collective energies of the planet. Your kindness, is never, ever, wasted.
So don’t let your concern about outcome temper your natural impulse to be loving, kind, or compassionate towards others. Allow your divine nature to shine knowing that is the where the real joy is – in your ability to lead with your true, undiluted expression of self. If you are making sure that you are also being kind, compassionate, and loving towards yourself, you will be able to embrace your beingness in a way that honours everyone involved.
One of the greatest things you can do to shift your satisfaction with your life experience and embrace your creator self is to re-examine the circumstances of your life with fresh eyes and start making choices based on preference.
So first we highly recommend you stop and ask yourself what you would do if you did not know one person in the world. What would you do if there was absolutely no fear of judgment? If you had no one you felt you needed to please? If you knew for sure everything would turn out fine?
Now that you have some clarity about how you are denying yourself or holding yourself back, decide which elements you wish to bring forward with you in your life expression. This is the critical part. Make sure if you are bringing something forward due to a sense of duty, responsibility, or personal integrity, that you are clear on the fact that you are now doing it because you choose to, not because you have to.
Recognizing that everything is a free will choice is how you heal resentment, Dear Ones. It is how you shift into self responsibility from victim consciousness and start to embrace your innate and authentic power as the creator of your life expression. It moves you from resistance to acceptance, which will create far more satisfaction in all your interactions with others. Choice is your empowerment in action.
Why not take one thing – one problem that you have – and give it UP. Give it to God to take care of for you. Hand it off to be resolved and don’t fall into the temptation to take it back before it is. Surrender it and truly let it go.
If you pay close attention when you do, you will find that you immediately feel lighter. You will feel the energy change around the issue right away. You will feel a lightening of the load, so to speak, which is your indicator that it has been handed off successfully, and already moving into the energies that can bring resolution. You have allowed it to be transferred into the realm where unseen divine solutions, also known as miracles, can occur.
There is never a reason to go it alone, Dear Ones. Isn’t it time for you to explore and utilize the endless supports you have available to you at all times?
» Source » Channel: Shelly Young