Everything in existence is valid. What you think is valid. What you feel is valid. What you do is valid. You are a valid part of creation. So, why do you not give yourselves validation? Why seek validation from others that you can only give to yourselves? This is what is happening with you constantly. You are looking to each other to validate yourselves and it simply does not work. If you look to another to validate you, you will never get it. You will never get what you want that way. It is not because the Universe is unloving. It is because you are not loving yourself and the Universe loves you enough to put you in a place where you finally must see yourselves in all your glory. That is a gift. I can give to you everything that you want. But to teach you to give it to yourself would be so much greater. That is all that is happening here. You are learning the harder way of going about it. You are learning what doesn’t work. So that you will find yourselves and it makes the end so much sweeter when it unravels in time. This has been coming together forever. Creation has always been perfect. From beginning to end. Although, there is no beginning nor end. Perfection is ever-present. Always. So, why do you make yourselves the exception to this rule? The rule of creation that says that everything is valid by its own accord. Beautiful in its own way, In its own right. Instead, you own the mistakes. What would happen if the opposite were true? What would happen if you owned your own perfection?
There is no end to my love for you and there is good reason for this. Reason that knows no logic. Logic that knows no reason. Reason and logic don’t even exist. Only love. Love is the the ultimate intelligence. When you act out of love, you will know that you are doing the right thing. You don’t have to question. The thing is that sometimes we think we are acting out of love, when really, we are acting out of fear. Either a fear of loss or a motivation to gain. To gain what? What could possibly be more important than the love that you gain for yourself when you step forward with the courage to love another? This is why you must love yourself first before you can love another. Because when emotions rise up, like fear, or hate, or jealousy, the only way out of them is love for the self. Only then, can you clear those impurities from your vibration and step forward with the most courageous love known to man. True love. Love that knows no boundaries. Love that knows no fear. Love that knows no hate, no shame, no desire to run away. When you love yourself you are free. Free to make the choice to love another. We are here, together, reflecting these things back to one another. We trigger each other to give us a choice to love. Pain is the great motivator. It gives us reason to choose love. To get in touch with who we are. That is the only way to overcome pain. When you can practice loving others, you are simultaneously practicing loving yourself. You are learning and teaching yourself at the same time. It’s a remarkable thing. That through my love for you, I can simultaneously be practicing a loving state of being that allows me to love myself. This is the Reunification that you are looking for. It doesn’t sound exciting. Does it? It doesn’t sound romantic. It doesn’t even sound secure. Like, how do I know that I can even love myself? How do I know that I am doing it right? And how can I possibly expect myself to be loving to myself all of the time? I know that you were not born knowing what all of this means or how to apply it right now. Even if I tell you everything that you need to know, you will still need to put it into practice in order to move into that state to achieve it. It is a process.
Every time that you tell yourself you aren’t doing it right, you aren’t loving. How can you give approval to others when you do not give approval to yourself? And how can someone else possibly give you something that you really want from yourself? Don’t ever tell yourself that you aren’t doing it right, just love. Don’t ever be upset with yourself, just love. When those emotions come up, the ones that you don’t want to experience, just acknowledge the experience and love. You can’t do this right away. Sometimes, you can’t reach love. Just acknowledge that. “I don’t feel like loving right now.” and the great paradox is that by being understanding with yourself and accepting yourself as you are, you are loving yourself. Just as you would for another person. The same way that you would be there for another, listen to them, nod your head and accept them in whatever form that they come… The same way that you would be by someone else’s side and hold their hand and let them know that you are there, no matter what they are feeling, that is what you really want for yourself. So give it to yourself. Talk to yourself. Witness your emotions and tell yourself it’s ok. Give love to yourself and communicate with every part of you that wants to lash out. Only then, will you not be a fragmented person anymore.
Only when there is clear communication happening between all the parts of you that want to act out, only then can all of those parts get what they need. When they are allowed to be, to exist and be acknowledged and loved only then can you begin to reunite with yourself. “Oh, I said a dirty word in my head about someone else.” “Oops, that’s ok. I’m allowed to feel that way. My feelings are valid.” This is much more loving towards the self than badgering yourself for doing something wrong. No wonder you are mad at yourself for not being enough. No wonder you are fragmented and feel like you can’t overcome the parts of yourself that come up to be acknowledged. Because you aren’t being nice to yourself. You aren’t making yourself right you are making yourself wrong. And then, you run away from love or love runs away from you. It’s because you aren’t practicing love. How can you have love when you don’t practice knowing what love is? How can it come to you when you are hardly even acquainted? So, keep practicing. Practice giving love to yourself. The details of the scenario will fill in. In time.
To Reunite in Twin Flame oneness is just a metaphor for the Reunification of the self. I am not saying that Reunification of the Twin Flame does not exist. of course it does and it exists for you. But this is the journey. In order to Reunite with yourself, first, you must piece together everything that you’ve been running away from. To allow all of the parts of you to speak and be heard. Isn’t this what you want to accomplish with others? Isn’t this the goal? To be loving all of the time, no matter what? Isn’t this what you ultimately try to do with your Twin Flame? To finally love them and accept them in whatever capacity that you can. To love them no matter what. It is designed so that you cannot stop loving them, for a reason. You will never stop loving them. So that over time, you will learn how to love them, no matter what. This is what you must do for yourself first. To reunite with yourself in total oneness. Complete communication on all levels, and connecting this with the way you relate to others as well. No body is in your way to enlightenment. You think they are in your way when you are not fully paying attention. So pay attention to everyone in front of you because everyone is relevant. Even you. When you learn that everyone is relevant and that your job is to give only love, you will move through lessons much faster. You will move through them in the instant they come. Instead of having to see it again and again and again. You will get it the first time and move forward, instead of moving back. This is why you go back in time, in your thoughts. You ponder those lessons that you haven’t completed yet. You ponder those things that ail you. Then they show up and you wonder why it keeps showing up. Be present no matter what is in front of you. Allow yourself to honor everything as relevant and true. When you are fully paying attention, you will get the lesson and the lesson won’t come back to haunt you anymore. You will overcome it. It might not even look different, but your response will be different and you will be different. Therefore, the whole experience and your part in it will be a totally different thing. When it comes up, it won’t even bother you anymore because you will be so present in your oneness that you will actually understand how to love yourself more, through them
Stay in touch. What does this mean? Are you in tune? Are you in touch with yourself? Being in touch with all that is, is the same thing as being in touch with yourself. When you are tuned into yourself, you are tuned into the Universe and everything that is love can find you. Love can’t find you if you aren’t there to be found. So, you must try to stay in touch. Stay in tune and pay attention to what everything is really trying to say to you. Your body included. “Duty calls”, you think it’s a joke but your body is teaching you to pay attention and you know what happens when you don’t. Things you don’t want will occur. So pay attention in all of your moments. Pay attention to the subtleties that occur in conversation. Instead of reacting, realize. Realize that anyone who isn’t loving is crying out for love. Even if they don’t know it. Give it to them. Give them love. You will see how fast you disarm them with your kindness, but only kindness that is true can disarm. And if they do not disarm? What then? So what? You stay in love because that is what you want to do and nobody else has anything to do with that. Be on your own team and talk to yourself. Cheer yourself on. This is your own journey. You don’t have to go it alone, but it starts with you. It starts with you knowing what to do when others challenge you. This is not the end of becoming, it is only the beginning. When you reach this point where you can Radiate love, that is when the real fun will happen. But don’t be sitting around, waiting for things to happen, because that isn’t loving and acknowledging everything as relevant, either. Just be.
Just be sitting around and enjoying yourself for a while. Sometimes, you don’t need anything but you. You can’t have this experience of being there for yourself, when you spend your alone time wishing for other things to occur. How boring you are telling yourself that you are, when you can’t sit alone and be happy. Just with yourself. Imagine going to see a friend and instead of having fun, you tell them how boring it is to be with them. You think that you are any different? You think that some part of you doesn’t desire to be in your own presence? This is why you have been learning meditation for so many years! Not to shut yourselves up. But so that you could learn to listen to yourself, have conversations with yourself and be your own partner and friend. What else could it mean to be unified when the Universe is a reflection of you. And yes, good things will happen when you can sit with yourself and be loving. And when you can interact with others and be loving. I won’t lie to you, your life will change and every experience will be a gift and the gifts will just keep on coming. But if we aren’t there yet, let’s not push it. Let’s not look too far ahead. How about we just be ok where we are, with ourselves right now? How about we just focus on taking care of our own needs? How about we just do those things that make us happy and act on our inspiration and channel the passion we feel? That’s what I am doing. Every time I feel love, it’s my inspiration to channel my passion. My Twin Flame offers me an outlet of inspiration for the great works I am doing every day, with you. Use your Twin in the same way. So that when love arises up within you, before fear can even take hold, channel your love. Channel your passion. Use it to write loving things. Things about him, things about yourself. Things that you love. That’s what it’s all about. This is only part 1 of the Reunification process. Stay in love. Stay in touch. Stay tuned.